Confident, Capable, and Solo – Travel on Your Own Terms


Traveling solo isn’t just a trend! It’s a deeply rewarding way to explore the world on your own terms.

Whether you’re taking a weekend escape or checking a dream destination off your list, solo travel gives you the freedom to move at your own pace, follow your interests, and connect with the world in meaningful ways. This guide is here to help you plan smart, travel safely, and feel empowered from takeoff to return.

Why Travel Solo?


Traveling solo gives you unmatched freedom. You don’t have to compromise your itinerary or wait for someone else’s schedule. You get to discover what lights you up, whether that’s wandering a quiet museum, chasing sunsets, exploring new cuisines, or simply relaxing without a set agenda. It’s also a powerful confidence-builder, helping you grow in independence and adaptability with each journey.

Planning Ahead for a Smooth Solo Trip


Smart planning can make your trip more enjoyable and stress-free. Start with the basics:

  • Choose destinations known for being solo traveler–friendly, such as Lisbon, San Diego, Edinburgh, or Tokyo.
  • Research safe neighborhoods to stay in and areas to avoid.
  • Book accommodations that are central, well-reviewed, and walkable when possible.
  • Schedule airport transfers ahead of time if unfamiliar with local transit.

Safety Tips Every Solo Traveler Should Know


Your safety matters, and a few precautions can make all the difference:

Share your travel itinerary with someone you trust back home.

Use a portable door lock or door stopper in hotel rooms or Airbnbs.

Keep a copy of your ID and important documents in a separate bag.

Avoid flashing valuables or large amounts of cash.

Be mindful of your alcohol intake in unfamiliar places.

Consider international phone/data access or eSIMs to stay connected.

Bonus tip: Trust your gut. If something feels off, don’t second guess it. Change plans or move on if needed.


travel Comfortably – Especially as a Plus-Size or Disabled Traveler


Travel should feel good in your body, and you deserve comfort no matter where you go.

As a plus-size traveler with physical disabilities myself, I always recommend:


  • Calling ahead to ask about seating, accessibility, or mobility concerns.
  • Booking aisle seats or choosing airlines with more legroom or upgrade options.
  • Checking reviews or reaching out to tour companies about accommodations.
  • Using folding mobility aids or portable cushions to reduce fatigue.


The more you advocate for your needs before arrival, the smoother your experience will be. If you book your vacation or trip with me, I help you do everything, for free.

Solo Travel Doesn’t Mean Lonely


Solo travel is an invitation to meet new people – or to enjoy your own company in peace.


You can:

  • Join small group excursions or day tours (check my Excursions page for ideas).
  • Stay in boutique hotels, hostels, or co-living spaces that encourage social interaction.
  • Try local classes, like a cooking or art class, for a more immersive experience.
  • Use apps like Meetup, Eatwith, or Withlocals to meet like-minded travelers.

Don’t forget to document your journey. It’s yours alone, and worth remembering.